Pseudo-Masculinity and Red-Pillism in Post-COVID Orthodoxy
Exploring the current trend of young, alt-right men converting to Orthodoxy.
All across the Western world, many Priests are reporting an increase of young men converting to Orthodoxy. Given the fact that statistically, almost every form of Christianity has historically seen more female attendees than male, the current trend presents an interesting question. Why, in the post-COVID world, are we seeing such an influx of men converting? I should first point out that I don’t think it’s necessarily a bad thing that young men in particular are converting. I want people to be Orthodox and I want the Church to grow. I also don’t like the suspicion cast whenever lots of men do anything, assuming that it must be inherently a bad thing. So whilst recognising that all in all, it’s a good thing that growth is happening, we might want to ask why now?
Although the general trend is very much positive, and should be celebrated, it’s important to also recognise that there is another trend hidden within. That is the fact that many of these converts are far-right, usually American-style conservatives, very much committed to a particular kind of ideological form of Orthodoxy. What they see in the Orthodox Church is not so much the presence of Christ, or a place in which to work out their salvation, but a place where their alt-right political ideology can find a home. For them, the Church becomes a battleground for the culture wars, and the Scripture and the Church Fathers become weapons to defeat their ideological enemies. Terms like “heretic”, “liberal”, and “woke” get thrown around endlessly, targeting those they feel like aren’t in keeping with their particular understanding “tradition”. Even Bishops aren’t safe from these attacks, with condemnations happening daily, especially online.
The Online “Orthobros” and “Hyper-dox”
I have spoken previously about how dangerous and problematic online Orthodoxy can be.1 With little to no oversight, and the ability to reach thousands of potential converts online, certain figures have created an entire network of online pseudo-parishes, where they proclaim their ideology, and convert folks to an ultra-traditionalist and rigorist version of Orthodoxy. The influence of these figures cannot be understated. The majority of young people nowadays discover Orthodoxy online first, long before stepping foot in a parish and speaking to real human beings. The online space is also dominated by men, with YouTube viewership in particular, skewed to a young male audience.2 These are broad trends, but two case studies that sum up the problem well, are that of Jay Dyer and Fr Peter Heers.3
Jay Dyer4 is a well known YouTube conspiracy theorist, “comedian”, and Orthodox apologist.5 With over 130 thousand subscribers, he’s one of the most popular online Orthodox figures, with his audience rivalling that of major Orthodox media companies. Jay is well educated in philosophy, and is an intelligent thinker and communicator. Much of what he says may be true, but it’s my opinion that he embodies the wrong spirit. His approach is aggressive, attack-dog style, and fuelled by conspiracy theories. His main targets are Roman Catholicism, the Orthodox Church of America (which he likes to call OC-Gay), and Ancient Faith Ministries. He is known for slandering hierarchy and harassing clergy and other online figures, and has even “doxed” people who dare to cross him. He runs a large Discord server, which allows him to convert people to his version of Orthodoxy in secret, and also gives him access to an army of zealous minions that he can (and does) deploy to attack his enemies. He misrepresents “patristic rhetoric” to justify his actions, and accuses those who dissent of “piety signalling”. I have even been accused of such by one of his followers in a Facebook group I moderate, demonstrating how deep their loyalty to Dyer runs. It’s needless to say that I fundamentally disagree with his approach.
Fr Peter Heers6 is primarily known for running the website and YouTube channel ‘Orthodox Ethos’, and is also responsible for the foundation of the publishing company ‘Uncut Mountain Press’. Since 2017 his viewership has progressively grown, and skyrocketed during the COVID pandemic, with his YouTube channel now sitting at over 70 thousand subscribers. His videos are extremely high quality and well produced, taking full advantage of social-media marketing techniques. Unfortunately, his content is steeped in ultra-traditional, hyper-rigorous, anti-ecumenical, sectarian rhetoric. The COVID measures and vaccines gave rise to the popularity of Protestant style anti-Christ and end-times conspiracies, and Fr Heers took full advantage of this trend, entirely embracing this unhealthy eschatological obsession. On top of this, he is well known for promoting a legalistic and anti-pastoral ethical philosophy, encouraging scrupulosity and spiritual anxiety. He is probably best known however for his views on the reception of converts by baptism alone. His support of rebaptism and corrective baptism is justified by cherry picking the Fathers and a handful of modern Saints, and imposing a post-hoc economia theory onto the canons. All of this has been soundly refuted over and over again throughout Church history7, and is by far the minority practice in the Orthodox Church. To put the icing on the cake, since his departure from Greece in 2017, Fr Peter has not operated under a Bishop, despite consistently claiming otherwise, and has been deemed to be acting “in a manner outside of the Holy Canons” by the Assembly of Orthodox Bishops in America.8 He is therefore, a non-canonical Priest of nobody, and nowhere, but the internet.
So what has this got to do with young men converting to Orthodoxy? Unfortunately, these type of online Orthodox figures attract hyper-masculine, alt-right conservative, red-pill adjacent, young men to Orthodoxy. Orthodoxy is sold as something fundamentally intertwined with the American conservative mindset, appealing to those committed to far-right conspiracy theories and culture-war politics. Additionally, the COVID measures and vaccines added fuel to the fire, acting as a rhetorical tool for lobbying anti-Christ and end-times theories. All of this has a deep influence on the type of men being converted, and the version of Orthodoxy they are being converted to. Orthodox Christianity is becoming increasingly absent of Christ, and more concerned with hot button cultural and ethical issues. This attitudes draws in zealous converts, who go on to perpetuate this hyper-doxy online and within their own parishes. I think it goes without saying that this is extremely damaging to the spiritual health of these young men, and undermines everything Orthodoxy actually stands for.
The Manosphere, Andrew Tate, and Red-Pillism
The growth of these problems actually find their root outside of the Church, in parallel cultural movements that have bled into our parishes. It’s no surprise that these trends come from without our walls, given the fact that they are fundamentally opposed to Christianity. The mid 2010’s gave rise to a number of men feeling increasing angry towards and disaffected by feminism. The so-called men’s rights activist movement9 was born as a sort of corrective to more radical forms of feminism, claiming that men have it “just as bad”. Not only did this spiral off into severely misogynistic concepts like “involuntary celibacy”10, it also begot the red-pill movement.11
As a cultural philosophy, red-pillism (a reference to The Matrix) often operates under the guise of “return to traditional Christian values”, but is in fact, deeply anti-Christian. Not only does it seek to subjugate women to men, it rejects marriage and monogamy more broadly, especially emphasising that male sexual promiscuity is rooted in evolutionary biology, and so is morally permissible.12 It also inverts the concept of “the patriarchy”, claiming that the legal system and society at large, is set up to benefit women, and that there is an active war on masculinity in today’s culture. The “manosphere” is the collection of online groups that endorse some type of red-pill philosophy, providing a space for men to spout their faux masculinity and misogynistic rhetoric.
Red-pill philosophy shot into the mainstream through essentially one man; Andrew Tate.13 If you don’t know who Tate is, you are lucky. Starting off as a semi-professional kickboxer, and then appearing on Big Brother in 2016, Tate went on to make his millions by running a webcam business (yes, that kind of webcam), essentially profiting off the sexual labour of young women. He then started various projects, including Tiktok, in which he spread his faux masculinity and deeply misogynistic views. Tate’s brand of masculinity is well summed up by Will James in his article about Tate’s influence on young boys in schools;
“Tate’s version of an ideal, successful life is one that promotes male supremacy and female inferiority, including the subjugation of women. The premise of much of his content revolves around the idea that men and their behaviours should be aggressive, misogynist, derogatory, and violent. For instance, Tate views women as the property of men and he says that women bear responsibility for their attacks in rape cases.” (Andrew Tate: A Case Study on the Effects of Online Influencers on Students’ Education)
It’s probably no surprise now that Tate and his brother are now facing charges of human trafficking and r*pe. Unfortunately, these cultural trends have had a profound impact on young men in the West, with bitterness, hyper-masculinity, male supremacy, “alpha-maleness”, aggression, egoism, and misogyny on the rise. Worse still, through figures like Jay Dyer, “Christianised” versions (with puritan undertones) of these ideas are creeping into the Church under the guise of Orthodoxy.14
The COVID Pandemic
The other cultural movement that has influenced these converts is the reaction to the COVID measures. Now it should be said that many governments (particularly the British one) failed to do a really good job dealing with the pandemic. But, to be fair, the whole world was plunged into a unprecedented situation that no one was really prepared for. Although the COVID lock-downs and social distancing made many people realise what’s important in life, and in doing so, leading them to embrace Christianity, for many, it had the opposite effect.
COVID gave birth to a whole variety of conspiracy theories peddled by alt-right commentators online, including (but not limited to); the pandemic was planned by an Illuminati-esque one world government to control the masses, the pandemic is fake, the vaccines are dangerous and/or carry some sort of implant and/or are the “mark of the beast”, you can’t get sick in church, not kissing icons is heretical, wearing masks in church is heretical, using more than one spoon is heretical, the pandemic is a sign of the end-times, etc etc.15
Through figures like Fr Peter Heers, these conspiracies are spread amongst the faithful, encouraging mistrust of the Church, and disobedience to the hierarchy.16 Many new converts who come across Fr Heers’ work, unfortunately are led to believe that this is what Orthodoxy is all about. Those who aren’t already, are turned into conspiracy theorists, and those who already were, find a home for their ideas. This obsession with the end-times and anti-Christ, distract from the real focus of the Christian faith (union with God), and can do deep spiritual damage.
Possible Solutions
I would like first to draw our attention to two Bible verses that provide us with important precedents;
“He must not be a recent convert, or he may become conceited and fall under the same judgement as the devil.” (1 Timothy 3:6)
“Who are you to judge someone else’s servant? To their own master, servants stand or fall. And they will stand, for the Lord is able to make them stand.” (Romans 14:4)
The first precedent here is that neophytes shouldn’t teach. St Sophrony of Essex says that it take at least 15 years for someone to properly appropriate the Orthodox mind (what he called the “dogmatic consciousness”).17 This isn’t because recent converts don’t know anything, it’s because they are invariably spiritually immature. That’s not a criticism. It’s simply to say that nothing can replace time spent living the life in Christ. There’s no fast track to sanctity, and teaching theology isn’t merely a matter of communicating data- it takes wisdom, pastoral experience, and spiritual knowledge.
The second is that clergy should not be giving spiritual advice or pastoral direction to those outside of the flock entrusted to them. The only folks actually ordained to give you spiritual direction are your Priest, and your Bishop. A Priest giving general spiritual direction over the internet is like a Doctor prescribing you medication despite having never met or spoken to you before. They don’t know you, your situation, or your particular ailments. Therefore, you should ignore those who deign to give spiritual advice over the internet.
Beyond avoiding bad apples, we also need a positive vision of masculinity that is firmly rooted in the Orthodox Christian tradition, and that isn’t arbitrarily restricted by gender stereotypes or political ideologies. Ephesians 5:25 gives us a good template for this;
“Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her”. (ESV)
This is ultimately what it means to be a man, what it means to be masculine; sacrificial love. Not demanding authority, seeking status, being prideful, being legalistic, or hating women. Instead; loving, self-emptying, and sacrifice. Just as Christ gave Himself up on the cross, so should we embrace our own crosses, putting death to our own will, and leading with love. Everything else is a distraction.
An Addendum
I have received some critiques and feedback about this article and so I would like to make the following clarifications;
I hope and I pray that the converts I am speaking of here not only find a political home, but a place to encounter Christ. I hope their faith is transformed over time. After all, the Church is home for everyone, not just those I agree with politically.
My intention in this article was not to judge the motives of these converts. Only God knows their hearts. It is not for me to say whether they have impure motives or not. I believe that most of us have mixed motives when we make any choice. I am simply repeating what I have heard from Priests both in person, and online. If their assessments are wrong, then praise God!
It is clear to me that in the Church we have problems with both the far-right, and the far-left. The reason this article is about right-wing converts is simply because that is the current trend. If we were seeing waves of left-wing converts, importing ideas foreign to Orthodoxy, then I would happily write about that, but that doesn’t seem to be happening.
The broader point here is that I believe we, as Orthodox Christians, should to free ourselves, as much as possible, from the influence of secular ideologies. We must be very careful to not read the tradition in light of our own political bent (myself included). This is very difficult, but it is what I think we should strive for.
NB: Everything expressed in this article is merely my opinion, and should not be taken as authoritative in any way. I am not a bishop, nor a saint, nor an academic, nor a spiritual father. If anything I say contradicts the teachings of your bishop, ignore me, and follow him. Additionally, all my articles are living documents, and so may be updated or refined over time, as I learn more, or discover better ways of articulating my points.
YouTube by the Numbers, Omnicore
Other figures include, but are not limited to; David Ehran (therealMedWhite), David Patrick Harry (Church of the Eternal Logos), Roosh V, Dcn Ananias Sorem (Patristic Faith), Fr Zechariah Lynch (Inkless Blog, Patristic Faith), Glen Chancey (Orthodox Reflections), Fr John Whiteford, Fr Seraphim Holland, Fr Matthew Baleka, Fr Turbo Qualls, Fr Andrew Moore, Fr Josiah Trenham (Patristic Nectar), Abbot Tryphon, Brother Augustine, Andrew Wilson, and Rachel Wilson (Dissident Mama).
For more substantial critiques of Jay Dyer, I would recommend these articles; Jay Dyer and the "Psy Op" to Subvert Orthodox Christianity in America, and From "Orthobro" to Orthodox and the Danger of Jay Dyer’s church within the Church
For a good critique of internet apologetics I would recommend this article by Steven Christophorou; Why Christian Apologetics Miss the Mark
For a more substantial critique of Fr Peter Heers, I would recommend this article; Fr. Peter Heers, Orthodox Ethos, and the Sectarian Mindset
Rebaptism: Patristic Consensus or Innovation?, Benjamin Cabe
Men's rights movement, Wikipedia
Red and blue pill, Wikipedia
I originally claimed here that this theory had been debunked based on the following article; Data should smash the biological myth of promiscuous males and sexually coy females. However, someone in the comments corrected me, but I do not have the knowledge to assess the arguments either side on this question. I have therefore edited this sentence to keep the point I was making, without committing myself to either view.
Andrew Tate, Wikipedia
Red Pill, Feminism, and the Manosphere with Jay Dyer, Church of the Eternal Logos
COVID: Top 10 current conspiracy theories, Mark Lynas
On social media, vaccine misinformation mixes with extreme faith, Elizabeth Dwoskin
I was going to provide references to a list of articles/videos produced by Fr Heers, but I do not wish you provide him with more viewership, and honestly it’s not worth anyone’s time. If you don’t believe me however, go on his website or YouTube channel and search ‘COVID’, and you will see what I mean.
St Silouan the Athonite, St Sophrony of Essex
One more thing here. Your "husbands, love your wives" quote is a perfectly valid scriptural teaching, of course. But not all biblical passages are so liberal-friendly. Here's the full context of the quote in Ephesians 5:
"22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
"25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing[a] her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29 After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[b] 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband."
So-- wives, SUBMIT to your husbands. As to the Lord! And again at the end: husbands are to love their wives as themselves, but the same exhortation is not given to wives. They are to *respect* their husbands instead.
Again in 1 Peter 3:
"Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; 2 While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. 3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
"4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. 5 For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: 6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
"7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered."
Again, note the asymmetry, and the emphasize on submission and obedience by wives. In a word: male headship. John Chrysostom and CS Lewis both consider this topic, and why wives are exhorted to submission. Why not equality? And they give basically the same answer: you can't have a democracy of two. If the marriage is to be stable and permanent, it needs a reliable decision rule. Ultimately, someone has to be in charge. St. Paul is savvy to things that people have usually understood instinctively, but that we have to relearn from evolutionary biology because feminism has suppressed them. Women are *hypergamous,* they want to look up to their mates, and men's instincts know that. So what women need chiefly to be exhorted to is *respect.* Then his instincts feel secure that she won't leave him for (or cheat on him with) a better man. Men, by contrast, are prone to stray, so women's instincts especially fear that he'll get *bored.* They like flowers and remembering anniversaries to reassure their instincts that he's still doting and fascinated. So St. Paul especially exhorts men to *love.* That's related to the fact that women are generally attracted to slightly older men, men to slightly younger women. In this context, it makes sense that, if someone has to be in charge, it will suit both best if it's the man. Also, men are historically, and naturally, the more public, women the more private, sex, so they can fit better into the public social hierarchies by which society is organized. And so forth.
Now, the idea of male headship is absolute KRYPTONITE to modern feminist-influenced women. To present them with the logic of "you can't have a democracy of two" is like grabbing them by the neck and dangling them over a cliff. They hate it. The very survival of the self-image they've constructed for themselves depends on refuting, or failing that, somehow dismissing you. It's morbidly fascinating to watch the desperate treadmills of evasion that they get onto if you're gauche enough to put the elementary logic of male headship on the table. "We decide together!" Yes, but what if you don't agree. "We talk it over." Obviously, but what if you still can't agree? You're aware that conversations don't always settle disagreements, right? "Well, let me tell you about this time when my husband and I disagreed and... [some story]... so it turned out all right." Good for you, but one case doesn't prove a rule. You can see that sometimes it won't work out like that, right? "We've been married for twenty years and we've always been able to settle it." (Silence one's doubts.) Good for you again, but you're rather fortunately situated in life, aren't you? Some people don't get so lucky as always to land on spontaneous agreement. And so on, and so on. I've learned to avoid talking about it when I can. Which is a bit of a shame because there are a lot of people that I'm basically writing off as subrational on the topic by giving up arguing with them even though I know they're wrong.
Now, I have no idea how much damage these feminist sophistries do to modern marriage. Obviously, modern marriage isn't faring very well. But there could be other reasons for that. The fact that mandatory feminist ideology makes it impossible to have a coherent decision rule for how couples decide is surely unhelpful. Another interesting question is: what should a man who understands the St. Paul/John Chrysostom/CS Lewis logic of male headship do in a society full of women who have been brainwashed into being utterly intolerant of that logic. You might, like me, be infinitely blessed in finding a little bubble of opinion where the feminist gospel hasn't penetrated! :) But if not, is it dishonest to enter the married state knowing that your bride refuses to understand and accept the necessary conditions of marital stability. It might work out just fine. Maybe you'll never be put in a position where you need to exercise male headship. Or maybe when you need to do it, she'll realize at that time why it was needed. It's a moral risk I'd feel very uncomfortable taking. But then, the preservation of the species is important too. It's hard to say.
I think it's possible that even the couples who don't break up when they have a disagreement and no rule by which to settle it are still harmed. "We decide together" can mean "The most passive-aggressive is the boss." Or it can mean "We never take any risks because it's too hard to agree." In general, I think Western elites are more lazy-minded, complacent, and, if not cowardly exactly, then deficient in courage, compared to many elites in the past, and I suspect one reason for that is that their "we decide together" marriages don't allow them to take risks for idealistic reasons. But that's getting speculative.
Of course, male headship can be abused. The general principle has room for lots of different styles suited to different couples' personalities. But it can have ugly manifestations, where the husband is an obtuse tyrant and bully. How common that is in practice I have no idea; I don't think I've ever seen it in real life, though it's common in literature. But that's where the exhortations of St. Peter and St. Paul come in. Husbands should regard their wives as "the weaker vessel," therefore: do the dangerous things, the difficult things, the dirty things, take on the hard jobs, be the stronger one in all the challenges for your wife's comfort. Love your wives as yourself. And the comparison of the husband to *Christ* has the most beautiful and appalling implications of all. For what did Christ do? He died for us. So husbands, yes you're in charge, but use that authority to serve your wife, to put her interests first, even to the point of dying for her if it comes to that.
It's a beautiful and ennobling ideal. "Red-pillism" is a hideous distortion of it, but the feeling that feminism is a mistake, and that something glorious about masculinity has been lost through the crushing of thought under feminist orthodoxy, and that it ought to be recovered, is wise. What's the right way to be a man in a feminist age? That's a question worth wrestling with!
I really appreciate this post, thanks for writing it. The warning is much needed. Thanks for directing people back to a wholesome and genuine Orthodoxy, and not online conspiracy theories. I've read several of your essays and I'm a fan of your writing. Keep it up!
That said, your credibility dropped off a good deal when I read this...
"emphasising the now debunked theory that male sexual promiscuity is rooted in evolutionary biology."
That's like talking about the now debunked theory that the earth is round.
You provide a link, apparently meant to substantiate the claim that it's been "debunked." The reasoning in the link is fallacious, as I'll explain in a moment, but even if it's accepted, it provides no support for your statement. The linked page argues that "Data should smash the biological myth of promiscuous males and sexually coy females," and it supports it with data that females also have propensities for promiscuity. It doesn't follow that males don't! The article doesn't in any way claim to debunk the idea that male promiscuity is rooted in evolutionary biology.
The linked article is also fallacious because it misunderstands what evolutionary biology claims. What evolutionary biology clearly, overwhelmingly establishes beyond any reasonable doubt is that males have a strong tendency to *desire* promiscuity, a desire that is far less prevalent among females. Whether they'll get it is another matter. Because females are coy, they often don't. Females, by contrast, are less likely to want promiscuity, but if they do want it, it's easy to get, with so many eager males about. The result is that rates of actual promiscuity are often similar for males and females, as indeed they almost have to be unless males are quite polygamous. But it does not at all follow that the desires are equally strong.
Now, just because men *want* promiscuity doesn't mean they are *morally justified* in being promiscuous. They are not! And that's the battle that a Christian apologist needs to pick. If red pill adjacent males read this and think you've caved to liberal propaganda and willfully blinded yourself to the evidence natures of things, then... er, how do I put this?... I couldn't exactly rush to your defense in good faith on every point in this essay.
Men know first-hand that the temptation to promiscuity is very strong. "The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak," as St. Paul put it. It's a battle of willpower that you have to fight every day. It's hard. Don't pretend the struggle isn't there, and offhandedly throw us a fallacious link that you misinterpret in order to dismiss that struggle. The Fall has wounded us deeply, and left us full of evil impulses that we have to fight, fight, fight against in order to be holy.
I've written more about this in my book *The Grand Coherence.* Here are some relevant chapters:
Chapter 12: Sociobiology, the Sexes and Human Nature
https://lancelotfinn.substack.com/p/the-grand-coherence-chapter-12-sociobiology
Chatper 13: The Case for Chastity
https://lancelotfinn.substack.com/p/the-grand-coherence-chapter-13-the